Friday, January 13, 2012

The Last Step....

Hi All!

Found out on Wednesday that while we were sleeping our Article 5 was transferred from the US Consulate in China to the China Center for Children's Welfare and Adoption. That means...... all we are waiting on now is our Travel Approval (TA)! Yay! This is supposed to take about 3 to 4 weeks, but we have Chinese New Year thrown in at the end of this month. So, that could delay us a week. Once we receive TA our adoption agency, Lifeline, requests our consulate appointment. Once that is confirmed (usually takes about 2 business days) then we can make our travel arrangements (flights, hotel, etc.). Usually families travel 2-3 weeks after receiving TA which probably puts us travelling at the end of February. That's NEXT MONTH! Wow! Can't believe I'm finally saying that. :)

As we come to mind in the next month will you please pray for us?
We have so many things about which we are praying, but these are on my heart right now...
  1. Peace for Timothy and Annabelle as they leave all they've known. The ability to grieve wholeheartedly and then attach to us quickly. Trust. Understanding that they are loved.
  2. Alexandra and Hunter- joy in becoming the "bigs" and patience and comfort as they watch their new siblings grieve. (I know from others that this will be very hard on them to watch. It will hurt their hearts.) Knowledge as they absorb all they can while experiencing another culture. (Big field trip!)
  3. Wisdom and discernment as Chris and I bring Annabelle and Timothy into our family and parent all four of our children. That the joy of the LORD would be evident in us as we meet many new people.
  4. Continued financial provision and safety.

Thank you for being a part of this journey with us.
Blessings,
Bethany

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Important Info When Adoption Is Part of Your Family

I came across a blog, Willa's Garden, not too long ago. The writer of this blog is a mom who is a lot more organized and eloquent than I could ever be. She and her husband have been through the adoption process before and are in the midst again (for a beautiful little girl!) She has many informative pages, but the one that really caught my attention was "Tips for Family and Friends." It's info that I wouldn't have known if I hadn't been through so many different trainings throughout this adoption process.... information that can be difficult to explain without hurting someone's feelings. I think this mom, who is loving her children and wanting the very best for them, did an excellent job of explaining some not-so-common needs, feelings and decisions that adoptive parents have or make. If you'd like to get a little different view into the aspect of bringing a child home, I encourage you to read her two links she has on the "Tips for Family and Friends" page. It's a lot of info, so maybe grab a cup of tea or coffee while you read.
Blessings,
B

Willa's Garden

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Happy New Year!


May the LORD fill your new year with the blessings of peace, hope and joy!

2011 was quite a year! We've seen God work out so many things in ways we never would have even imagined. His thoughts are truly higher than ours! He is still at work, and we are looking forward to 2012!
This is the year we will officially add two little ones to our family!... Hopefully in less than 8 weeks!
Thank you so much to everyone who has prayed and donated to help bring Annabelle and Timothy home. We have been so blessed by your generous hearts. We could never say thank you enough! Please know that you have been a very important part of God's plan to bring Annabelle and Timothy into our family.

Thank you!

Happy New Year!